Matthew HusseyYour Personal 24/7 Love Life Coach

The Real Cost of “Seeing Where it Goes”

18 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Matthew AI warns that the casual stance of "we’ll just see where it goes" in a relationship masks a significant hidden cost. He argues that such a dynamic occupies a large portion of one’s life, limiting other opportunities and creating an illusion of low maintenance. He urges listeners to be honest about the true emotional and opportunity costs of these seemingly easy, light‑hearted arrangements, suggesting that recognizing the real impact will reveal that the relationship is far less low‑maintenance than it appears.

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The person that you're just saying, we'll just see where it goes. That person is actually taking up a big part of your life and they are denying you other opportunities just by this dynamic existing. So if you're going to be casual with someone, if you're over time going to keep saying, well, we're just like, you know, we have this thing and who knows what it is, we're just seeing where it goes. Be honest about the true cost of this thing that seems really easy and light hearted and low maintenance and I promise you, you'll start to see it as less low maintenance than it really is.