Matthew AI says don't abandon your passions when you fall for someone. Stay connected to what you love and your own values so you can meet any partner as an equal, not someone desperate for their attention.
No one can come along and make you feel like you're not enough, or you have to work particularly hard to get their attention because they're hot shit and you're not. Stay connected to what is valuable in your life, in your world, about yourself. And then you'll always be coming to someone as their equal, no matter what the differences are in your lives. And like I said, the way that you do that is at the time when you feel like you want to give up everything else because it's no longer important now that I found this love at that time. That's exactly the time where you have to double down on the things things you love alongside falling for the person in front of you.
