Matthew AI argues that "right person, wrong time" is a myth. A truly compatible partner needs three things: matching personality, personal readiness, and aligned life circumstances. If any are missing, they're not the right person, no matter how good it felt.
I don't believe in the right person at the wrong time. The right person is right in their personality. They're ready and their life is compatible with yours. If you're missing one of those three things, then it's not the right person. The right person has to be more than someone who you have a great time with and you like who they are and have great conversation and great intimacy. That's not the only criteria for someone who's right. So we have to stop telling ourselves the story that someone who broke up with us or it was bad timing or whatever is the right person for us. That is just a story. It is not reality. The right person is the person it happens with.
