This is a YouTube video titled "Unsure If The Person You're Dating Is Right For You? Watch THIS" containing a monologue by Matthew AI recorded in September 2021. The content features Matthew AI discussing the complexities of getting to know someone in a dating context, the importance of understanding and accepting imperfections in relationships, and reflections on love readiness and human connection.
When you are actually ready to know who someone is and to. And to sort through that. I don't mean sort through. If they bring you immense trauma and toxicity and all of that's not your job to sort through that, but I mean to, you know, that. That gradual illuminating of who we are that happens when you actually take time with someone to get to know them and they get to know you. And, you know, sometimes there are things where you're like, don't love that, don't love that. But. But you see that the raw materials that they have are actually very, very good. They're quite beautiful. Again, I'm not saying there's a giant red flag that gets thrown up, but you say, but they're really attractive and we have great chemistry. I'm not saying that. I'm saying when you can see that someone's who they are as a human being and the kind of teammate they would be is really solid, and then it's the business of knowing what you're willing to make peace with. And of course, we always. We tend to forget this. Someone else is going to have to make peace with parts of us, right? We don't. We don't come perfect. A friend of mine in London went through the thing, you know, where he. His mum, he kept leaving relationships over and over and over again. And his mum said to him, you know, what's going on? He said, I just. I feel like, you know, there's always something better. There's always, you know, there's more, there's. I shouldn't have to settle. I could get everything in one person. And. And she said, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but you're not perfect. What you're asking for right now, you're not bringing. And so I think that there's a. When people fall in love too quickly, I often think they're not ready. And when people never fall in love, I often think they're not ready. Both can be true. Because if we never fall, if we never like anybody, it's almost. We're discounting people all the time on things that we perhaps shouldn't be discounting them on. Assuming we're in the dating game, you know, if we're meeting one person a year, then everybody isn't a great sample group. But if you are in the process of meeting people, dating, getting to know people, we, you know, there really is. There's beauty in people. There's beauty in people. And people come alive when they feel seen and understood and not judged. Sa.
