Matthew Hussey explains what not to do if you want your ex back after a breakup. He focuses on emotional strength and self-improvement as the foundation for either winning him back or moving on well.
Somebody you care about just broke up with you. How do you respond? For most people, the response is panic. They send a hundred text messages, trying to get closure, begging to have him back, asking why, what they can do. They speak to every friend hold for so much of our lives to follow our instincts. But in this situation, your instincts don't help you, they hurt you. Your instincts are the thing that tell you to relentlessly chase after this person and freak out in unimaginable ways that actually push him further away instead of bringing him closer to you. See, panicking isn't a strategy. But sticking to the game plan and living your life is. And living your life means a lot of things. It means going out sometimes and being with friends and never talking about your ex. It means being at home and reading a good book. It means meditating. It means working on a passion project so that you distract yourself in a really meaningful way. It means things that enrich your life and make you more attractive. See, what you want is that if he runs into you again, he is seeing the ultimate attractive version of you. The version of you that makes him want to come running back to you. Look, I don't want to help you get back anyone who's not right for you. and I don't want to encourage you to make a decision to chase after someone who doesn't want you. That's the biggest waste of our time. But every now and again, we feel like there's a relationship that's genuinely supposed to be and someone on the other side of it has just made a mistake right now and maybe they're going to realize that mistake. I have something for you today that will help you navigate all of the steps after your breakup, not just from this initial moment where I'm telling you not to panic, but a week from now when he texts what do you send back so that you're not just running back to him, but you send him something that makes you look ultimately attractive and gets him running back to you? Or a month from now when you bump into each other or even arrange to go for coffee, is that even a good idea? There are all these steps after a breakup to navigate and I want to make sure that you do it in a way that makes you attractive and strong. Attractive so that if he's going to come back to you, you give him the best possible chance of making the right decision about that. and strong because if he doesn't come back to you, I need you to be strong enough to go out there and create an alternate future with someone even better. The guide that I'm about to give you does both of those things. So check it out. I'm gonna link it up right here. Go download it now. It's completely free and it will serve you either way, whether you wanna get over someone or whether you wanna get them back. Go check it out. Thank you so much for watching this video. I'm sorry if you're in pain right now and you're one of the people I'm speaking to, but I promise you, it's about to get better.
