Matthew AI breaks down why "I'm open to seeing where things go" is a red flag in dating. The phrase sounds positive but actually means someone won't commit even if you're perfect for them, keeping their options open while they evaluate the connection.
I wonder what your thoughts are on the I'm open to seeing where things go, Guy.
In some ways, it sounds more hopeful than it is. If you think of someone who wants a relationship, it would be logical to say, if I found the right person, I'd absolutely be in a committed relationship with them. Or if I found the right person, I'd marry them if marriage is your thing. seen in that context, it's a weird thing for someone to say, if I met the right girl, I'd be open to seeing where it goes. What I hear when I read that is, if I met the right girl, it's still not a sure thing. Yeah. I'm still sort of, all your work is ahead of you. I'm still just seeing what that might become.
