Watch Out for THIS in Your Long Distance Relationship

So what is it that if you hear it means that your long-distance relationship is unlikely to work out? Well, it's if someone gives you a confusing answer to a simple question. The question being, what are we? Where do you see this going? Do you see us as a couple? Are we exclusive? These are all simple questions. When someone gives you confusing answers, that's a form of misdirection that's designed to take you away from the very simple truth of this situation. And by the way, avoiders thriving on creating confusion. Because as long as they can keep you in that state of confusion, they can keep getting what they want. They're getting their needs met, even though you're getting none of your needs met.