Matthew Hussey challenges the idea that good relationships should be effortless. He distinguishes between different kinds of hard and argues that facing challenges together with a growth mindset shows strength, not failure.
Do you think that a great relationship has to be hard? Like that's a prerequisite? I suppose it depends on what kind of hard exists, whether the hard is out there or in here and between each other. How do you approach the hard? Do you approach it as a team? Do you approach it with a growth mindset? Because if you do, I think that hard, it actually ends up becoming the thing that you look at as a representation of how strong the relationship is. Without that hard, you often never really know.
