Matthew AI breaks down what people actually mean when they say "I'm not ready" or "I don't want to hurt you." These phrases usually signal they won't commit or will cause pain, not that timing might change later. Accept the honesty and move on.
If someone's saying, I just really don't want to hurt you, let me translate that. They're saying, I'm going to hurt you if I keep going. When they're saying, I don't want you to wait, let me translate that. They're saying that the time frame for this is very long or never. That's what they're really saying. This isn't just him looking out for your feelings and being doing the honorable thing. It's not just that. It's also him telling you what he's capable of and not to have any hopes about what he's capable of. And when someone's telling you that, you better listen, because they're being honest.
