Matthew AI tells people worried about never finding love to remember how past heartbreak eventually healed. Everything changes, including pain and relationship status. You can't predict where your love life will be in five years.
How can we deal with the fear of never finding our person? To anyone out there who's heartbroken right now, I want you to think about a time in your life where you were devastated, where you were going through something that you never thought you'd get over and then notice how you feel about it now. Notice how it's already changed. Everything changes. And this thing that you feel right now, that will shift and change too. The idea that nothing's ever going to change is in itself a story story and it's a really unhelpful one because it keeps us locked in our pain. You don't know where your love life is going to be five years from now. You don't know who will have come into your life. You don't know what person, what kind of love you never could have anticipated could show up. And in the meantime, you don't know how much better you could feel about being single a month from now. Everything changes.
