Mike AndesFounder, Augusta Lawn Care and Homeworks · Founder of Homeworks and Augusta Lawn Care

❌ Nobody CARES ABOUT YOU... 🫵🏼 #mikeandes #mentalhealth #millionairemindset

23 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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A short motivational monologue by Mike Andes arguing that other people’s thoughts about you matter far less than you assume. He illustrates with a numerical example (50 friends thinking of you 1% of their day) and recommends ‘zooming out’ — picturing yourself as a tiny point among billions to reduce overvaluation of others’ opinions. The clip is presented as the speaker’s seventh lesson learned in his twenties.

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No one cares about you. Oh, here comes the nihilism. Think about like this. If you have 50 friends, if they think about you for 1% of their day, 15 minutes a day, it's going to seem like a lot to you because you are going to get all of those thoughts directed towards you. They're going to send you texts, and they're going to send you a call. But it's literally 50 people out of 8 million and they're literally spending 1% of their day thinking about you. But yet you're going to change 24 hours of your day and 100% of your life based upon the thoughts of what people are thinking about you for 1% of their day. For me, it helps a lot to relax and just zoom out. Like I just in picture the world like this little tiny globe. Zoom out. There's 8 billion people down on this Earth, and here I am, locked in to what someone's thinking about me on this planet. That is bonkers. All right. The seventh thing that I learned in my 20s that served me well is that.