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Peter Sorgenfrei argues that knowing your values and who you are reduces arguments and unclear signaling. State your opinions simply and clearly instead of hedging or performing for others.
Peter Sorgenfrei argues that knowing your values and who you are reduces arguments and unclear signaling. State your opinions simply and clearly instead of hedging or performing for others.
Twice in the last couple of days, I had this conversation about knowing yourself. And I told folks, well, when you don't know yourself, everything becomes an argument, you know, with others and even within yourself. But when you do know yourself and you do know where you stand and what your values are and who you are as a human being, things don't become an argument because that's the way things are. That's who you are. I'm not arguing that you shouldn't be able to change or adapt or grow, but most of the time we end up in arguments or discussions and conversations because we're either unsure on who we are or we're sending unclear signals. So think about that next time. Who are you? What do you stand for? What's your opinion on a topic? Express it simply and clearly. And I, I think you will be in much fewer arguments or conversations and discussions. And I think that would be helpful to you.
