When You Judge Someone, You Define Yourself

Wayne Dyer said, when you judge somebody, you're not defining them, you're defining yourself. Think about that for a minute, right? When we see something or hear something and we judge that person for whatever they're doing, actually it says nothing about them. It says all about us, our insecurities, our shadows inside, the things that we're not aligned with. The next time we feel the need to say he is like this or she's like that, or look at him or look at her, Try and look inside, say, what is prompting me to react this way? What is causing me to say this thing? And realize that by judging them, you're not defining them, you're defining yourself.