HARSH feedback saved my career

Would you want to work for me? And he says this thing which everybody says when you shine the mirror in this really uncomfortable place, and he says, but I can't change. That's just who I am. And I said, well, I know that's not true. It's just who you've chosen to be until today. And the reason I know that's not true is because 10 years ago, I sat in your chair and my coach told me I was. Because I had almost the identical problems of being impatient and not realizing, like, I was pushing my team away, not drawing them closer. I wasn't, like, motivating them through this. I was demotivating them. I tell that story because it was very real. It was. And I am so grateful that I had a coach who was brave enough to be like, you gotta stop. Like, that is. You don't see it, but everybody else does. And so I guess the origin story of what I. Why I do what I do today, because I heard that changed the trajectory of my career, that conversation. And that same person 10 years later still writes to me from time to time and be like, I still think about that conversation. And I changed the trajectory of his career.