Addicted Family Drama 😲

They talk about these sort of these three roles, the persecutor role, the hero role, and the victim role. And so what happens is, if you jump in there and you're the rescuer and you fix things for someone, eventually, which is an unhealthy role, eventually you fall down the victim role, because then you start feeling like you were taken advantage of. And then you move over to the persecuted role, because then you get attitude about it and you usually say something nasty, or you put little passive aggressive comments in, or your energy's just cold, or you start avoiding the person, it's going to come out of you some kind of unhealthy way. We've all been there before. It's hard not to fall into this.