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Ever FELT Like The Parent In Your Relationship #recoveryjourney #addictionrecovery #gettingsober

23 Jun 2025 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, Amber Hollingsworth explains how, when one partner struggles with alcohol addiction, the relationship can devolve into a cat‑and‑mouse game. The sober or less‑affected partner often slips into a parental role—trying to control, fix, and manage the situation—while also shouldering the practical responsibilities the addicted partner neglects, such as household chores, bills, childcare, and emotional upkeep. This shift disrupts the romantic dynamic, turning the partnership into a caretaker‑dependent relationship rather than an equal partnership.

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How do you get yourself out of this cat and mouse game? Because as you're playing that game, one of the partners becomes more like a parent, and that throws off the romantic dynamic between the couple because one partner is trying to control the situation or fix the situation. And not only that, but they're also having to pick up and take care of a lot of the responsibilities that the person with the alcohol problem has dropped. Whether that's household responsibilities, paying bills, taking care of kids, just taking care of the relationship.