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How Addiction Blinds You to Reality #recoveryjourney #addictionrecovery #addictiontreatment

21 Mar 2025 · 1 min

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In this segment, Amber Hollingsworth explains that active addiction and codependency are driven by a desperate, present‑focused mindset that overrides logical thinking. The urgency to obtain the substance or to “fix” a loved one consumes mental bandwidth, leaving no room to consider future consequences. She describes this as a failure to “play the tape,” meaning the individual does not mentally rehearse or evaluate long‑term outcomes, leading to denial or minimization of the harms that will inevitably arise.

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When you are in active addiction or you're in active codependency, which is basically the same thing, there's a desperation going on and that desperation is running the show, not logic, desperation. You're so obsessed with this thing that you are desperate to obtain, whether that's the addiction or getting someone sober, whatever that is, that you don't have time. You don't spend the time. You don't take the time to think further down the road. We call it playing the tape. You don't play the tape through because you're just here and now in the present dealing with the current fire situation, which keeps you from really thinking long-term. So that's denial of consequences that are going to happen or minimizing those consequences.