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The Barrier to Recovery

1 Jul 2024 · 1 min

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Amber Hollingsworth explains a psychological barrier to recovery: people often use minimizing language (qualifiers like “just socially,” “one last time,” or other adjunct phrases) alongside admissions of addiction. That minimization lets them rationalize continued use, reduces perceived urgency and seriousness, and makes fully quitting less likely. The clip highlights how wording reveals ongoing ambivalence and a tendency to manage rather than stop.

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You hear the strong language of, I have an addiction, I'm alcoholic. But then you hear these little adjunct things that are adding on to tell you how it's not that bad. And when I hear statements like that, then I know that's actually why they're having trouble stopping, is because they haven't convinced themselves that they need to quit it completely. When I hear things like that, it lets me know that they're still probably. It's just super easy to talk themselves into trying to manage it, or one last time, or just socially, they're leaving themselves wiggle room. I'm not saying, saying that those statements are untrue, but they are, in their mind, minimizing the problem. And that decreases the seriousness and the willingness and the urgency that they have about solving this problem.