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What If You're Not Doing Recovery Wrong? #addictionrecovery #sobrietyjourney #soberlife

14 Mar 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Amber Hollingsworth challenges the prevailing belief that there is a single, universally correct way to achieve addiction recovery. She argues that societal messages often pressure individuals to follow a prescribed system, leading to feelings of inadequacy—being labeled bad, stupid, guilty, or incompetent—when that system doesn’t work for them. Hollingsworth emphasizes that recovery, like supporting a partner or parent with substance use issues, requires personalized solutions. She stresses that both clients and their loved ones must seek approaches that fit their unique circumstances, noting that the process involves both emotional (heart) and rational (brain) components that must be aligned. The overall message is a call for flexibility, empathy, and individualized pathways in the recovery journey.

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Society tells us that this system will work and that we have to follow it like that. So are we bad, stupid, guilty, wrong, incompetent, impatient? Maybe. But maybe we're just naive. Maybe we're working with the information that we have and it's just not all the information, or it's not fully developed, or it hasn't yet come to fruition. There is no one solution. There is no one path to follow for recovery and for our movement to get this thing going. So bear that in mind. Like we talk about that a lot with our clients who are the one with the alcohol or drug problem. There are recommended paths, but there's not one path that will work for every single person, just like there's not one solution or one method for every single parent or partner or spouse. So we have to find the one that works for us. This is a question of heart and brain, and they just don't dance together.