A short coaching clip by Raele Altano (persona: 'well with Raelle') that lists four unproductive, dismissive tones and gives example phrases (e.g., 'Why are you wearing that?', 'Without me, nothing gets done'). The speaker frames the content as guidance to shift those tones toward more productive, helpful communication.
Here are four unproductive tones and ways of speaking that benefit absolutely no one. And for reference, I'm well with Raelle, your communication coach, here to help you socialize and articulate with kindness, class and confidence. Why are you wearing that? What did you do for that to happen? Well, that's never happened to me. Without me, nothing gets done, so it's important that I'm included. These types of tones give people a false sense of superiority and trigger a defensive response in the person on the receiving end. I'll be covering how to shift these tones from unproductive and dismissive to productive and helpful. But for now, be mindful.
