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Couples stuck looking backward through past hurts miss the chance to build a shared future together. Without a clear vision of what you're creating, you're just managing pain and circumstances instead of designing the life you actually want.
Couples stuck looking backward through past hurts miss the chance to build a shared future together. Without a clear vision of what you're creating, you're just managing pain and circumstances instead of designing the life you actually want.
You're trying to move into the future using a rearview mirror to guide yourself, and I think it's causing a crash. Because you can't see what's in front of you. Now, she's done the same thing, by the way. She just has different references. She's also been through pain and been through those elements, and she's doing the same thing. So both of you are trying to see each other looking at rearview mirrors, and it's like, here's two people that clearly love each other, you wouldn't be here, and you're committed to each other. But it doesn't feel like it to each other at times, or it feels like it's not winnable at times because this is what's guiding you instead of a vision of where you want to take this. As long as there's no vision, it's really hard to manage this thing because it's just managing the day-to-day pain or pleasure on top of all the pressures you have in your business and your life. And if you have children and you have a child, all those additional pressures are there. And then you get caught up in making a living instead of designing a life. You get into managing circumstances instead of being the creator of your life.
Tony Robbins Helps Her Use the Power of Her Own Mind to Manifest A Better Life
