Tony Robbins works with a participant on relationship pain at his Date With Destiny event, moving from unmet needs through emotional release to forgiveness and starting over.
This is the moment. This is what you've come for. This is why we've worked around the clock all to come to a moment where you, my dear friends can choose your destiny. What we want to do here, date with destiny is really about the thing that controls your destiny. And that is your beliefs and your values which shape the most important thing of all your decisions. I love you. Please forgive me. Thank you. I want you to celebrate every day and say I raised that I taught him everything. Knows I'm afraid of loving people. People think if I express my love and it's not received, I'll have such devastation. No. The ultimate devastation is not to ever express your love. This event couldn't happen at a better time. If you're going to shape your life and destiny, what we really want to do here is re engineer ourselves so we can not only deal with it, but flourish in it. Tell me why you're unhappy in your relationship.
Got note two days ago telling me.
So what's Mary you're really happy with right now though?
Being a mother.
What's going to inspire a so is seeing you go through hardship and find the way to victory. Is it possible that this is not a one sided situation? That this came about because both sides didn't meet each other's needs?
Everything in me wants to say. Wants to scream no. Because it feels so unjust and cruel.
Do it then scream no. As loud as you can right now.
Like I have room now to rebuild.
Yes. And what is the first thing your instincts caused you to do when you finally let go of it all?
Reach for him.
That tells me more than anything you could say. You say I want to do better. What could I do better? And you listen and you care and you walk away with an actual plan that makes each other's needs be met. Because the needs are even more important. The values. And yet the values are some of the most important things in our life.
Absolutely.
Is the victimhood gone?
So done. I feel like I just came here ready to figure out what was blocking me from being able to love him again.
My soul now knows love and passion. My soul knows courage. You've forgiven yourself. You're forgiven. You're for love. When in all of us is the possibility of greatness a calling to be great. Remember, life doesn't happen to us. It happens for us. Your destiny is only beginning. You thought it was the end. It's just a new chapter.
Tony Robbins Helps Her Use the Power of Her Own Mind to Manifest A Better Life
