Your people-pleasing side works in relationships but tanks your business. When you let it run the show, you prioritize others' approval over your own judgment and get exploited by aggressive partners. You need a different internal part in charge to protect yourself.
There are many parts of you. Some of you put the wrong part in charge of your business. It might be a perfect part for something else. Like, I've got a part that would want to please everybody all the time. I grew up as a pleaser, and that was a wonderful thing in many ways, except it made me constantly focused on what was going on and pleasing other people rather than knowing in my center what was right. So it might have worked well for friendships, but it sure as hell didn't let me run run a business, because then I got in business with some sharks and try to please a shark and they eat you. So I had to learn to put a different part of me in charge of the business.
Tony Robbins Helps Her Use the Power of Her Own Mind to Manifest A Better Life
