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Anger sharpens your mind, but happiness makes you think faster and better. Give yourself 90 seconds to feel upset, then move on. Leaders are defined by how quickly they solve problems, not by avoiding them.
Anger sharpens your mind, but happiness makes you think faster and better. Give yourself 90 seconds to feel upset, then move on. Leaders are defined by how quickly they solve problems, not by avoiding them.
No matter what happens, shit's gonna happen in your life. There's gonna be stuff that's really tough. There's gonna be stuff that seems impossible, but how you deal with that is everything. I used to think, well, man, when I get pissed off, my brain gets so sharp and I come up with answers. It's true. But when I'm really happy, my brain comes up with answers even faster and I'm a lot easier to be around. You know, other people want to be around you. So it's like I've learned to train myself. It's not— I'm not perfect. It's not like I won't get pissed off or frustrated, overwhelmed, or stressed. It's just I give myself 90 seconds and I kick my ass out of it because that will not serve anyone I love. Then they take on worried about you or worried about the situation. It's like, no, everything's solvable. It might take more time than we want, but we're going to solve this. But in the meantime, we're going to live in a beautiful state because there's so much that grace and that God has given us, and we need to appreciate that. And then we'll figure out these things. Your goal— you're never going to get rid of problems. If you're in business, you have problems. You might call them challenges, but they're problems. But what makes you a leader is you solve them quickly. And the goal is just get better quality problems.
Tony Robbins Helps Her Use the Power of Her Own Mind to Manifest A Better Life
