Passion needs difference: one partner bringing masculine energy, the other feminine, regardless of sex. When both adopt the same energy or mask under stress, the spark dies and conflict grows.
What makes a relationship work is things in common. What makes it passionate is that things are very different. Now, if they're different values, you're going to just eventually hate each other. But if there are different energies, masculine and feminine energies, regardless of whether it's men and women, right? Could be two women, two men, men, woman. As long as whatever the relationship is, there's a more masculine one and more feminine one, there's going to be sparks. That's where the electricity comes from. But what a lot of people do is they have a lot in common, and so they have love, but they don't have the passion because they're both being masculine or they're both being feminine, or they've worn themselves out. And most people, when they're tired or when they're stressed, put on the mask of the opposite energy. Most women under stress, ladies, you tell me, become more masculine or more feminine, which one? Under stress? That's right. And the minute you get more masculine, which is like a protection source, there is zero possibility electricity between the two of you. And if you have a masculine male now, it's war and you're going to feel hurt.
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