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Your beliefs aren't facts, just stories you tell yourself. Someone who says they've tried everything to lose weight or that all good partners are taken is stuck in a false narrative that stops them from acting. Swap certainty for evidence.

Your beliefs aren't facts, just stories you tell yourself. Someone who says they've tried everything to lose weight or that all good partners are taken is stuck in a false narrative that stops them from acting. Swap certainty for evidence.
The fact that you believe it doesn't mean it's true. It just means you're certain. And so most people have certainty about what won't work. So let's take the example of fitness again. So why don't you ask that person who's 35 pounds overweight, how come you're overweight? Well, I've tried. Well, will he say, I've tried everything? That's right, everything. And I look at him and I say, with all due respect, you haven't tried everything. Yes, I have. I've tried thousands of things. Okay, name them. And then they'll go, well, I've tried, you know, hundreds of things. Name them. Well, I've tried these two things that don't work over and over again is what it'll come down to, right? And they call that everything, right? So the story keeps them to do it. You're not in a relationship, you don't have a relation, you say you want one, why aren't you in one? Well, the good ones are all taken, they're gone, or they're gay and I'm not, or I'm gay and they're not, right? It's not true, it's just not true. But the story controls what you're willing to do or not do because it's a belief, and beliefs control actions.

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