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How I Found The Man I Married

Name: How I Found The Man I Married
Uploaded: 2022-03-28T15:15:03+00:00
Duration: 52 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this personal anecdote, the speaker explains how she used a principle from Tony Robbins' book Unlimited Power to create a detailed, written checklist…

28 Mar 2022 · 1 min

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In this personal anecdote, the speaker explains how she used a principle from Tony Robbins' book Unlimited Power to create a detailed, written checklist of ideal partner characteristics and a set of non‑negotiable deal‑breakers. For each date she compared the person against this list, discarding anyone who failed to meet at least 95% of the criteria or who possessed any non‑negotiable trait. She argues that most women are not this methodical, often lingering in lukewarm, medium‑term relationships, whereas a systematic, high‑standard approach can dramatically increase the odds of meeting a “10‑out‑of‑10” partner.

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So I found the man I married. I was going through one of Tony Robbins' books, Unlimited Power, and in there it said if you want to find your spouse, you've got to write down everything about the person. So I wrote down all the characteristics, like everything to a 9. What do they look like? What's their job like? What do they think like? Are they smart? How do they dress? And then I wrote down what are my non-negotiables, for what would this person absolutely not have, what things are unacceptable to me, and that if anyone has one of these things, there's no way that we're gonna be in a relationship. And so then every time I went on a date, I looked at that piece of paper at the end of the night and I said, did they fit the list or did they not? And if they had any of those non-negotiables, it would be a no-go, we would never talk again. If they met most the criteria, I'd maybe try for a second date. But honestly, most of the times, if they didn't have 95% of the criteria, I would just move on to the next date. A lot of women don't do that. They're not methodical about looking for the right spouse, and they waste all this time on 4 to 8 month relationships where they feel lukewarm about the person, when in that time you could have gone on 100 more dates and probably found somebody who's a 10 out of 10.