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How to handle people who doubt you

Name: How to handle people who doubt you
Uploaded: 2025-12-10T15:01:29+00:00
Duration: 1 min
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this motivational monologue, the speaker addresses how to respond when others try to sow doubt or when negative events occur. He contrasts two…

10 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this motivational monologue, the speaker addresses how to respond when others try to sow doubt or when negative events occur. He contrasts two reactions: blaming external forces versus turning inward for self‑examination. Emphasizing personal responsibility, he argues that blaming others stalls growth, while reflecting on why one allowed a narcissistic person into their life can reveal gaps in self‑love and confidence. The speaker advises revisiting childhood achievements and gradually rebuilding self‑esteem step by step. He warns that refusing to look inward and accept personal fault leads to lifelong stagnation.

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How do you handle people trying to instill doubts in you? When bad things happen to you in life, you have two choices you can do. This is probably the most important thing I can tell everybody out there. You can blame other people. You can say, oh, that evil person out there, he's manipul— she's manipulating me, they're doing this, that, and the other. Oh, woe is me. You do that in life, you're never going to get anywhere. The other thing is, every time something bad happens, you you look inside of yourself and you go, that narcissist got into my life and did all kinds of damage. What is it about me that allowed them into my life? Maybe I don't love myself enough. Maybe I don't have enough confidence in myself. How do I build that up? Well, I have to go back to my childhood. I have to think about the things that I've actually accomplished. I have to build it up slowly, slowly, slowly. But if you can't look inside of yourself and go, the bad thing happened and I have to learn from it and I have to grow, and maybe some of it's my own fault, you're sunk in life. For the rest of your life. You'll never ever develop.