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How To Keep The Attraction Alive In Your Marriage 💍

Name: How To Keep The Attraction Alive In Your Marriage 💍
Uploaded: 2022-02-08T21:50:42+00:00
Duration: 27 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this brief advice segment, the speaker explains that maintaining attraction in a long‑term marriage or partnership relies on introducing variety and…

8 Feb 2022 · 0 min

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In this brief advice segment, the speaker explains that maintaining attraction in a long‑term marriage or partnership relies on introducing variety and novelty. Couples should engage in new shared experiences—such as trying unfamiliar restaurants, traveling to places that feel a bit intimidating, or taking on fresh activities together—because novelty fuels attraction. Additionally, each partner should cultivate separate hobbies and personal space, creating a healthy balance of closeness and distance. This combination of shared novelty and individual independence helps keep the spark alive that many couples feel fades over time.

If you've been married for a long time or together for a long time, you keep the attraction alive by adding in variety. And so when I say variety, a lot of the times it means that you do new things together because novelty creates attraction, whether it be going to a new restaurant, a different place you've never been before, it's going on a trip that you're both nervous about doing, or it's through creating distance. So it's each of you finding new hobbies, new things that you can do by yourselves. Those are different ways that you can create the spark that many people claim they lose. You have to have the right amount of closeness and distance in order to have a long-term relationship.