How to Never Struggle with Small Talk

In this short instructional video, Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP shares three practical strategies to improve small‑talk interactions. First, she advises avoiding static, closed‑ended questions and instead using action‑oriented, open‑ended prompts such as “What did you do this weekend?” or “What’s been keeping you busy?” to spark richer conversation. Second, she emphasizes the importance of phrasing: turning a yes/no question into an open‑ended one (e.g., “Where are you going this weekend?”) encourages detailed answers. Third, she recommends that when you run out of things to say, it signals a loss of interest, and the courteous approach is to politely end the conversation rather than force it. The video delivers these tips in a conversational, instructional tone, aiming to make small talk feel natural and engaging.










