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In this concise instructional video, the presenter outlines three specific, assertive responses to common gaslighting tactics. When a gaslighter denies a statement with "I never said that" or "That's not what I said," the speaker advises replying with the calm phrase "That's what I heard," prompting clarification without giving the gaslighter a chance to reframe. If the gaslighter tells the target they "need help," the recommended reply is "And I need someone who is helpful," which flips the dynamic and calls out the gaslighter's behavior from a position of strength. Finally, when the gaslighter accuses the target of "imagining things," the presenter suggests the firm statement "I do not imagine facts," affirming the target's reality and standing ground. The video encourages viewers to practice these lines and follow the presenter for further guidance on handling gaslighting.

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