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How to Stop Over Sharing #shorts

Name: How to Stop Over Sharing #shorts
Uploaded: 2024-06-09T19:00:01+00:00
Duration: 54 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this short self‑help video, the speaker offers three concise strategies to curb oversharing. First, they suggest applying a "now" filter – before…

9 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this short self‑help video, the speaker offers three concise strategies to curb oversharing. First, they suggest applying a "now" filter – before speaking, ask whether the listener truly needs to know the information immediately; most of the time the answer is no. Second, they explain that oversharing devalues one’s words, because every casual comment shapes others’ perception of you at a hidden cost. Third, they remind viewers that genuine connection rarely stems from talking only about oneself; therefore, if you wonder whether you’re talking too much, the answer is likely yes. The speaker ends with a call to try these tips and follow them for more advice.

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How to stop oversharing. If you wouldn't share your personal closet with them, don't share your personal thoughts with them. When you overshare, it's like handing out your favorite sweatshirt. The other person's not going to love it like you do, or protect it, or guard it like you do. So to help with that, try this. Number 1: Add a "now" filter. It asks the question, "But do they need to know it now?" We want them to know something. In fact, we think they may even need to know something. But do they need to know it now? Most of the time, the answer is no. Number 2: When you overshare, you undervalue the price of your words. Even when you answer that harmless question at work, "How was your weekend?" it allows the other person to create a perception of you, for good or bad, and that comes at a very high cost. And number 3: Understand that true connection rarely comes from just talking about yourself. So if you ever think, "Am I talking too much?" the answer is always yes. So try that and follow me.