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How to Stop Raising Your Voice #shorts

Name: How to Stop Raising Your Voice #shorts
Uploaded: 2024-01-29T20:00:03+00:00
Duration: 55 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this short video, the speaker explains why raising your voice during a disagreement signals weakness and undermines credibility, as it suggests…

29 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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In this short video, the speaker explains why raising your voice during a disagreement signals weakness and undermines credibility, as it suggests emotional takeover of analytical reasoning. To prevent this, three actionable strategies are offered: (1) record yourself on your phone to become aware of your tone, (2) watch yourself in a reflective surface like a mirror or window to monitor body language, and (3) consider how you want to be remembered after the conversation, reminding yourself that people retain feelings more than exact words. The speaker concludes by encouraging viewers to try these tips and follow the channel.

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How to stop raising your voice in an argument. The more confident you are in your position, the less you need to yell it. So when you start to raise your voice, you're telling the other person that your position is actually weaker, that you're overcompensating for something, and most importantly, that your emotional is taking over the analytical, which makes them less likely to trust anything that you say. So here are some practical tips the next time you hear your voice start to go up in an argument. Number 1, get out your phone and press record. You're going to be much more aware of your tone if you know that you're being recorded. Number 2, get yourself in the view of a reflection, whether it's a window, a mirror, whatever it is, just so that you can see yourself and watch yourself. Number 3, this is more of an internal question, but ask yourself how you want to be remembered after this conversation, a week after this conversation, a year after this conversation. And that just puts you on alert and keeps in the back of your mind that people rarely remember what you said, they just remember how you made them feel when you said it. So try that and follow me.