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How you be the Bigger Person pt.1 #shorts

Name: How you be the Bigger Person pt.1 #shorts
Uploaded: 2024-05-24T19:00:08+00:00
Duration: 47 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this short motivational monologue, the speaker outlines a mindset for becoming the "bigger person." The core ideas are: you may have the ability to…

24 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this short motivational monologue, the speaker outlines a mindset for becoming the "bigger person." The core ideas are: you may have the ability to influence others, but you do not have the authority to control their emotions; you must accept the present situation without taking blame for things you didn’t cause; you should apologize early and proactively, even if you feel you did nothing wrong, because taking responsibility moves the interaction forward. The speaker stresses that you can choose to accept the current reality and decide whether to move forward or stay stuck, and warns that pride can limit maturity. The overall call to action invites listeners to try this approach and follow the creator for more guidance.

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How to be the bigger person. It's a mindset. It says you may have the ability, but you do not have the authority to manipulate my emotions. It's not taking the blame for something you didn't do. It's a process of accepting, accepting your current present, meaning that you can disagree with it or agree with it. It doesn't matter. It doesn't change exactly where you are. For example, if you always want to be the bigger person, apologize first and apologize early. Nobody in the history of ever is going to complain that you took responsibility for your actions too early. But you might say, Jefferson, I didn't do anything wrong. Okay, you don't have to agree with it, but you have to accept that's where you are now. So do you want to move forward, or do you want to stay right there? Don't let your maturity be limited by your pride. That's being the bigger person. So try that and follow me.