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“I’m Not Trying To Be Liked, I’m Trying To Be Known”

Name: “I’m Not Trying To Be Liked, I’m Trying To Be Known”
Uploaded: 2022-04-25T21:00:16+00:00
Duration: 47 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this personal monologue, the speaker reflects on a pivotal lesson from Grant Cardone: “I’m not trying to be liked, I’m trying to be known.” She…

25 Apr 2022 · 1 min

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In this personal monologue, the speaker reflects on a pivotal lesson from Grant Cardone: “I’m not trying to be liked, I’m trying to be known.” She explains how, as a woman who brings a traditionally masculine energy to business, she initially feared putting herself out there. A moment of personal integrity sparked her decision to start creating content despite the anxiety. She acknowledges that her unique, polarizing perspective will inevitably attract critics, but she chooses to prioritize consistent action over fleeting feelings, reaffirming the mantra that being known matters more than being liked.

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lesson that I learned from Grant Cardone. When we were talking about making content, he said, I'm not trying to be liked, I'm trying to be known. And the reason I repeat that in my head a lot is because, like, you know, as a woman who loves business specifically and, like, who brings a lot of masculine energy to the table, I'm nervous to put out content. I was terrified. I only started making content because I literally woke up one morning and I was like, I am not in integrity with what I tell people by not making content because I believe I should be. I'm not doing something. And that was literally it. Him saying that helped me a ton because, you know, as I started making content and as it's getting wider and more reach, I have a lot of people that I know don't like me. I'm not the average woman out there who wants to talk about, like, I don't know, other stuff. Either way, it's like, the more unique you are, the more polarizing you are, the more people that aren't gonna like you. And so of course I care what people think. I don't let it change the fact that I'm gonna go make content the next day, because, like, the feelings will pass. My actions are gonna stick with me. I'm not trying to be liked, I'm trying to be known.