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It Sucks To Not Be Liked

Name: It Sucks To Not Be Liked
Uploaded: 2024-12-27T07:45:00+00:00
Duration: 26 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this brief monologue, the speaker argues that while it’s painful to be disliked, it’s even more detrimental to sacrifice one’s true self for approval…

27 Dec 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief monologue, the speaker argues that while it’s painful to be disliked, it’s even more detrimental to sacrifice one’s true self for approval. They suggest that being hated by "bad people" can be a positive sign, contrasting it with the undesirable notion of being loved by such individuals. The speaker shares a mentor’s advice: never accept criticism from someone whose advice you wouldn’t heed. The talk concludes with the observation that chasing personal goals is far crazier than expecting others to understand them, emphasizing the importance of authenticity over external validation.

I mean, it sucks to not be liked, but it sucks more to not be yourself. And I think it takes everyone a different amount of time to realize that being hated by bad people is a good thing. I mean, think about the opposite of that. Would you want to be loved by bad people? What does that say about you? And so a mentor told me this. He said, don't ever take criticism from somebody you wouldn't take advice from. The only thing crazier than chasing your goals is expecting other people to understand them.