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My Recipe For Making Good Dates

Name: My Recipe For Making Good Dates
Uploaded: 2024-11-18T22:00:34+00:00
Duration: 39 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this solo spoken segment, Shanli Liu recounts having gone on 100 dates with a partner named Layla and distills a practical "recipe" for better dates…

18 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this solo spoken segment, Shanli Liu recounts having gone on 100 dates with a partner named Layla and distills a practical "recipe" for better dates. The recipe consists of five concrete actions that appeared in the top‑rated dates: bringing flowers, giving a gift, pre‑planning the outing, knowing the partner’s preferences (her "list"), writing a note, and dressing up. Liu emphasizes the importance of treating dating like a sport: record each date’s details, identify the common successful factors, and repeat only those actions while discarding ineffective ones. By iterating this process, the quality of dates improves incrementally, leading to a healthier relationship that others notice and admire.

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Layla and I've gone on 100 dates. The top 10 dates, what do they have in common? I got flowers. He had a gift. He pre-planned something. She's told you her list. I wrote some sort of note. Oh, and we dress up. So like, this is my recipe for making good dates. A lot of times it's like, no one just takes the look back, but it's 'cause they don't start with the, I did stuff. You gotta do the 100 reps and you gotta record 'em. You have to recall what were the details. Then you look, you see the common factors. She's like, all right, well, I'm gonna only do those 5 next time. The first time you do this, your dates are gonna get way better, right? And then after that though, the dates are gonna get incrementally better But all that happens is people are gonna be like, how do you have such a healthy relationship? You're like, you know, all I did was I just looked at the stuff that worked and I just stopped doing the stuff that didn't and I just did it over and over and over again.