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Tell Them Your Deal-Breakers

Name: Tell Them Your Deal-Breakers
Uploaded: 2025-07-22T15:30:06+00:00
Duration: 36 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this short monologue, Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP, offers dating advice centered on the importance of stating personal non‑negotiables early in a…

22 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP, offers dating advice centered on the importance of stating personal non‑negotiables early in a relationship. She recommends being transparent on a first or second date about priorities such as work commitments, fitness routines, and other core habits that the speaker refuses to compromise. By communicating these deal‑breakers upfront, both parties can quickly assess compatibility, reducing future friction. Liu also stresses that the less discrepancy there is between a partner’s outward behavior and their baseline self, the more sustainable the relationship will be, because hidden mismatches inevitably surface over time.

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If you are on this, like, you know, I would like to find somebody train. This is something that worked exceptionally well, which is I think our first or second date, I just said upfront all the non-negotiables that I had. This isn't the like red flags, whatever thing. It's just like, I work a lot. I will not sacrifice that. If that is a problem, then this will not work. And that is okay. I just want to be upfront that these are, these are the things like I work out, I will do that. I'm not going to give that up. I will not give that up for anyone. The less you can make the discrepancy between how you're quote acting or performing and who you are at baseline, for that person, the better it's going to be long term, because they're gonna find out eventually.