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Three Responses to Stop Interruptions #shorts

Name: Three Responses to Stop Interruptions #shorts
Uploaded: 2023-10-04T19:00:24+00:00
Duration: 47 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this short instructional video, the speaker presents three assertive statements that can be used to halt interruptions during a conversation. The…

4 Oct 2023 · 1 min

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In this short instructional video, the speaker presents three assertive statements that can be used to halt interruptions during a conversation. The first phrase, "I can't hear you when you interrupt me," signals that the speaker cannot process the interrupter's input until they finish speaking. The second, "I will listen to you when I'm finished," conveys a willingness to listen but only after the speaker completes their point. The third, "Your chance to speak comes after mine," is a more forceful reminder that the interrupter will have an opportunity to speak later, but not now. The video aims to empower viewers with clear, direct language to maintain control of their speaking turn.

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These 3 responses will stop somebody from interrupting you. When it's your turn in the conversation and somebody interrupts you, you can actually put a stop to it by trying one of these. Number 1: I can't hear you when you interrupt me. I cannot hear you when you interrupt me. You are letting them know that you cannot accept or process any of what they're going to say until you're finished speaking. They're going the wrong way on a one-way. Number 2: I will listen to you when I'm finished. I will listen to you when I'm finished. You're letting them know that you want to listen to them, and you will, but only after you're finished saying what you need to say. And number 3, this one a little more assertive. Your chance to speak comes after mine. Your chance to speak comes after mine. You are telling them, hey, you're gonna have your chance, you'll have your opportunity to say what you want to say, you'll have your moment, but that, that wasn't it. So try that and follow me.