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What to Say When You Cry In an Argument #shorts

Name: What to Say When You Cry In an Argument #shorts
Uploaded: 2024-03-04T21:04:43+00:00
Duration: 38 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this brief YouTube short, the speaker delivers a direct, confidence‑boosting guide for handling moments when you start crying during an argument. The…

4 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief YouTube short, the speaker delivers a direct, confidence‑boosting guide for handling moments when you start crying during an argument. The core message is to reject any apology or expression of embarrassment about the tears, framing crying as a natural physiological release of tension. Instead of apologizing, the speaker advises labeling the tears (e.g., “tired tears,” “overwhelmed tears,” “tears that care”) to give them a purposeful identity. If anyone comments on the crying, the recommendation is to laugh it off and keep the conversation moving forward. The overall tone is empowering, informal, and slightly humorous, encouraging viewers to own their emotional response rather than hide it.

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Here's what to say the next time you cry in an argument. Absolutely nothing. Don't you dare for one second feel embarrassed or ashamed that you cry. It's the way our body naturally balances itself. The higher the tension, the higher the release. It's normal. It's natural. So don't say, "I'm sorry that I'm crying," or, "I get emotional." No, we're going to take that and throw it in the trash. You owe nobody anything. If you have to say something, then label the tears, like, "These are tired tears." These are overwhelmed tears. These are tears that care. And if somebody says anything about it, just laugh it off. So yeah, I mean, sometimes my stress comes in liquid form, but I'm good. Let's keep going. So try that and follow me.