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Your GF/BF Might Be Holding You Back..

Name: Your GF/BF Might Be Holding You Back..
Uploaded: 2024-12-02T02:30:15+00:00
Duration: 37 s
Channel: Shanli Liu, CPA, CTP
Description: In this motivational monologue, the speaker urges listeners to assess their romantic relationships through a goal‑achievement lens. By asking whether a…

2 Dec 2024 · 1 min

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In this motivational monologue, the speaker urges listeners to assess their romantic relationships through a goal‑achievement lens. By asking whether a partner increases or decreases the likelihood of reaching personal objectives, one can treat the relationship as an investment of limited time. If the partner’s impact is neutral or negative, they occupy time that could be spent with people who better support one’s goals. The speaker emphasizes that because time—days, weekends, extra hours—is finite, the few relationships we choose to invest in should provide a clear return toward our aspirations.

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Your girlfriend or boyfriend might be the number one reason that you're not succeeding. The one question that I like to ask myself is, does having this person in my life increase or decrease the likelihood that I hit my goals? And if the answer is neutral or no, then it means they're taking the slot of somebody who could make it more likely that you hit your goals. Because you don't have unlimited time in your life, and so you only have a certain amount of days, certain amount of weekends, certain amount of extra time that you can dedicate. And so the few people that you choose to invest— and it is an investment— in those relationships, you want to make sure that what you're getting in return gets you close to where you're at, because you're going to get a return from every relationship. It just not might be the one you want.