Dr Shiny Unsal presents Inner Shine Technology, a coaching framework built on uncovering personal truth through safety and being seen. She distinguishes empathy as intellectual from compassion as a unifying force linked to love and self-forgiveness, and frames full transparency as a spiritual practice for a 2027 new era.
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Inner Shine Technology is the technology for truth and enlightenment. The truth that we all want to feel safe, seen, heard, felt, appreciated, valued, and free. We all want to be free to be authentic. We don't want to silence our truth. And the truth that the only journey to your truth is your inner journey. Your Inner Shine. We're gonna Let that light shine in our world, in coaching. Obviously, we need to bring a lot of compassion. We need to bring a lot of empathy. And empathy is one of the skills in emotional intelligence, as you all know. And empathy, it's almost like a distant word. Yeah, I have empathy, but you know, there's like a distance between you and my empathy for you. Versus when I have compassion, it brings that gap almost together in my mind. That's how I look at it. And it just brings some oneness. To the situation, like you are not different than mine. You are not very like far away from me. We are both human beings, and we are all experiencing this, and I see myself in you type of a situation. Full transparency is great because it is also the time of the universe to speak some spirituality to our space. As some of you may heard, 2027 is the new era, and in the new era, we are reminded. To embody full transparency and freedom, and it's super important to practice that transparency as our everyday practice. Like why not? Compassion, love, gratitude are at the top. Compassion is always at the top together with love and gratitude, and there there is something to it because compassion is seeing others as yourself. If you are able to not judge somebody, some other. Being, then it is a sign that you're able to not judge yourself. That's also something. Self-judgment is what we keep working on. If we are able to practice that compassion, which means that we have that compassion. And if we have that compassion, which means that we can forgive ourselves, there is self-love going on instead of self-rejecting or self-judging. And that is where all that compassion and that high frequency of compassion, that's where it's coming from. And I understand it requires boundaries. And without boundaries, there is also no clarity.
I was looking for, you know, what path I could take and which would guide me in the right direction. And I love her. I did my ICF ACC with her and it was an amazing journey. I'm so excited with this new cohort and this new journey we are taking together.
Why I'm here? Probably because I'm addicted. I can't do without. Literally, when the alarm just went off to wake me up, I said, okay, you know what, easy, just turn to the other side and go back to sleep. And then I said, like, but what am I gonna miss then? What am I gonna miss? I can't do that to myself. So it's kind of a nice addiction to have.
I'm happy. If 15 weeks from now, the version of you sitting here would be your ideal version, What would be just one thing, just one difference? What would that be? That is my coaching question for you. Please go ahead and contemplate on it after we are done. You are allowed to do whatever you want, and I know that you are going to go back and sit down with yourself to do your self-coaching. Challenge yourself to become your own coach. When our time is done here, we are not done. We are just starting. When you just click, leave the room, you're on your own in your day, and I want you to bring the mindset that we practiced here back to your days, back into your conversations, back into your sessions, whatever that you are doing. That is how the challenge of going to the next level and deepening is going to really work. Do you accept The challenge to bring the pro-level mindset to your everyday, even after we're done. Go galactic, go galactic, then you're in the right place. Let's go, let's go.
