Vanessa Van Edwards breaks down the signals that separate real flirting from politeness. Polite flirters ask questions and share equally; uninterested people gaze overhead, check their phone, and scan the room instead of focusing on you.
How do you know, then? The difference between this is their polite style of flirting versus they're actually really not interested. They're not asking questions. Polite people. You ask, I ask, you share, I share. If someone's not into it, they're going to be like, they're not being polite. Like, they're overhead gazing. They're looking at their phone occasionally. They're, like, looking at what else is happening in the bar. They're like, go ahead and ask me. Very different. That's not polite. It's very dismissive. So that's. I think the difference is the seriousness. We shouldn't dismiss our polite flirters. I don't think we should dismiss them because I think that they're actually probably going to make a good choice.
