Vanessa Van Edwards shows how the same words mean completely different things depending on your tone. She repeats phrases like "I like you" in different ways to prove that delivery, not word choice, determines how people hear you. Most communication problems aren't about what you say, but how you say it.
I like you. I like you. I like you. You are truly great. Just great. You are truly great. Just great. Take your time. Whatever works best for you. Whatever works best for you. That's totally fine. Tone is everything. Same words, completely different message. Most people think they're struggling with assertiveness when they're actually struggling with delivery. You don't need harsher words. You don't need to be louder. You need a tone that matches your intention. Biggest communication mistake I see: people focus on what to say and completely ignore how they're saying it.
