Vishen Lakhiani reflects on his pattern of choosing partners who need healing, describing himself as a light worker drawn to fix broken people. He warns that treating partners as projects enables abuse and emotional entanglement. Choose someone who's already done their own work instead.
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I'm a light worker, and I feel like I heal people. And I'm. And this is my purpose. And I was born. God created me for this purpose. So I want to fix and help everyone around me. But the mistake I did is I did it to people, and I was drawn to souls that are broken in relationship situations. You know, I can still help everyone in the world, but I don't have to be dating or marrying someone who needs that. I should be marrying someone who did the work. I know what they bring to the table. I should not be taking a project and str trying to fix them. I can do that with people around me because I can walk away from them anytime I want. But when your emotions are involved, you're like, no, that's not how it should be. And I realized that with my second husband, I was like, I'm doing the same mistake again. Trying to fix someone broken and giving them all my resources, and they're using me. Financially abusive, mentally, physically, all of that all over again. Why? Because I want to fix that person. I can fix him without marrying him or dating him.