What part do you play in your relationships?

So when people say to me my first marriage failed, I say, your first marriage is a starter marriage. Don't call it a failure, call it a starter marriage. What did you learn from it? And they like that. Oh, it's just the starter marriage. Yeah. So I learnt stuff and I'm going to take that into the real one. So what would you say to people who aren't learning from their previous relationships? We play the only part we've ever known. Until that part becomes your own. Until someone says, fuck that part. Why don't you go out and play a different part? We're given parts, we have a script. In our childhood, I got to play this part. The kid that no one loved, the one who had to create straight A's, the pleaser. Now it's time to play a better part, get a better script, learn it off by heart. Play a better part and your life will change wonderfully.