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In this short commentary, Jamie Wolfer asserts that while children inevitably alter the atmosphere of a wedding, they do not necessarily ruin it. He emphasizes that couples have the right to decide the vibe they want—whether that means a child‑free ceremony, a dry or heavily alcoholic reception, a black‑tie affair, or any other style—and that guests should respect those choices. Wolfer frames these preferences as personal expressions of the couple’s desired wedding experience rather than judgments about children themselves.










