Jamie Wolfer's wedding dress code requires floral spring dresses with flower crowns for women and linen shirts with tied fabric for men, banning cocktail and formal wear. Her future mother-in-law and sister-in-law say she's making guests look like idiots, but everyone else is on board. She's asking if she's wrong.
"Am I the a-hole for giving my wedding guests a dress code? My soon-to-be mother-in-law and sister-in-law are especially pissed. I reached out to them after their names were mentioned and they said I am ruining what is supposed to be happy day by demanding people dress up like idiots. Edit: One of the low-budget options was things like a normal floral spring/summer dress many people would already own with the addition of like a flower crown or belt or something. It went up from there. For more masculine stuff, it was like a linen shirt with a piece of fabric tied around your waist or a belt. It was quite low-key and I'm not super strict about it, just just not things like a cocktail dress or a bodycon dress or formal suit and tie. Also just gonna add, excluding sister-in-law and mother-in-law, our closest family and friends haven't complained and several people said they're looking forward to it. My people! Those are my people. I love them. It is more so cousins, aunts, uncles, or those sort of level friends. They have also not directly contacted us with their concerns and we are hearing it through the grapevine. Edit 2: We put in the invitation we don't expect or want people to buy us wedding gifts and would rather they keep their money for themselves or use it for their outfit. Again, great, great, better, better, moving in a better direction. If they don't think it's cool, they don't want to do it. Anyways, let's head to the comments.
