Jamie Wolfer argues that Reddit's obsession with wedding etiquette rules like no white dresses or surprise proposals is overblown. He's never actually seen these things happen at real weddings and thinks people should trust common sense instead of spiraling over online discourse.
Considering all the talk here on Reddit about fun stuff happening at weddings, OP just wanted to cover the most common ones, like someone showing up in a white dress, disruptive children in the ceremony, people stealing the spotlight by proposing or announcing their pregnancy, all of which are generally considered rude at a wedding. If all your guests are decent people and not prone to drama, those rules might be a little over the top. I totally, completely agree. I can tell this bride spends too much time on Reddit simply based on these wedding rules, 'cause I can tell you for a fact that I have never seen a guest show up wearing white at a wedding. I've never seen an announcement, pregnancy or otherwise, happen at an event. You can just tell when someone almost like hyperfixates and spends too much time on the interwebs because then they get freaked out about stuff like this.
