Wedding Details gone VERY WRONG | Wedding Planner REACTS

All of the things that went wrong during my wedding weekend. Fair one.

I'm removed enough from my wedding now to be able to talk about all the things that went wrong without it feeling like so dumb, annoying. I also work in the wedding industry and I think I've only done maybe a handful of weddings where things have gone utterly perfect.

Okay, okay, not me already pausing this like 5 seconds into the video. It is perfectly normal to mourn and/or process your wedding for an extended period of time after your wedding, okay? And I love that we're getting a bride's perspective of someone who actually works in the industry. Okay, sorry, I'm also just a very typey person, so I knew things were to go wrong because it's part of my identity.

So we're going to talk about all the things that went wrong on my wedding, on my wedding weekend, and laugh about it. Starting off with Friday, which was my welcome party. My welcome party dress specifically, the seamstress that I took it to hemmed it about 4 inches too short. 4 inches is an exaggeration, probably like 2 inches too short. So I couldn't wear it with the heels that I bought for the dress, and that was pretty devastating and heartbreaking. So I actually got that dress I think about 6 months after I got engaged, and I was so ridiculously excited about it because I felt like it was just so me. And it sat in my closet for about 2 and a half years because from the time that we got engaged until we had our wedding celebration, it was 3 years. So I was pretty devastated.

I mean, absolutely, this poor girl has been staring at this dress for 2 and a half years. That is a lot of months of just staring at this dress waiting for this welcome dinner. Like, this vision has lived rent-free in her head longer than some TV shows, you know what I'm saying? Here she is, it gets hemmed so short that she can't— like, we can we can recover from this though, right? We can work— it's a bummer, but we can recover from this. Okay, okay, maybe the rest will be like not bad like this, right?

My welcome party sign, when it originally came in, I absolutely hated it. I worked with an Etsy seller who creates and designs linen signage, and I asked her to remake it. I did ask her to send me pictures of all of the linen signage that I had her make for the weekend, and she didn't send them, which was really annoying. And then when she sent the second one, um, the design was better, but there were letters missing on the sign. Then I would argue that the design was indeed not better.

Like, if we're missing letters, the design is not better. You just like that font better, but it's— it's— the sign is broken. No, this is why you need to get your own Cricut, okay? Come join the Cricutier club. I love Cricut. I love my Cricut machine so much, and that's literally probably what this person used, okay? You can save a lot of money and just buy the machine yourself, okay? And then you can make Cricut things for the rest of your life. Ask me how I know. I love crooked.

We had the date of the welcome party as a part of the sign, and on the 2025, the second 2 was missing completely. I think something else was missing too. That was, that was lovely. Christian and I were doing a photo shoot before our welcome party, so I didn't get to see the setup of the welcome party. And when the staff hung up our sign, they hung it up with these 2 zip ties instead of this blue ribbon that I had. And so when I walked in and I saw these 2 black zip ties against my white linen sign, I was like Oh my God.

Okay. Okay. Again, this is on the more minor end of things. I'm curious who the staff is. Like, was this a restaurant? Where was this located? Who are these staff people? Do we have a visionary or like a creative director or a wedding planner? Creative director? Who am I? Creative director for a wedding? Okay. Sorry, I glitched out for a second. Who is keeping an eye on this? Like, does someone with an aesthetic vision watching this, or is it a couple of servers at the restaurant who are like, I don't know how we're going to do this. Let's just attach it with zip ties. Context, right? In the grand scheme of things, most people are probably not going to care, but I can understand why the bride does.

I did my own makeup and I have severe time blindness. I also think I lost my phone at some point throughout the morning and I ran 45 minutes behind, which on wedding day you don't want to do because you don't have 45 minutes to run behind.

Okay, this is why you need people around you. This is where a planner would come in handy. Sometimes the planner's not there when you're getting ready, right? Like, I will go— if my couples are getting ready on site, I will go check in with them. But oftentimes if we have multiple venue sites for the ceremony, for the reception, for the getting ready spaces, I will simply meet them at the ceremony location after working at the reception location for a little bit. There's a lot of things that a planner can juggle on a wedding day, but to run 45 minutes behind, especially when you already know this about yourself, like you know you have time blindness, even if you didn't have your phone, if you know this about yourself and you're watching this video right now, you need to tell your friends, your family members, your wedding party, hey, help a sister out, okay? If I start to get like really in the weeds with my makeup makeup, can you just, can you just give me gentle reminders? Running 45 minutes behind for hair and makeup unfortunately is not, uh, an unusual thing to do. But before you think I'm harping on hair and makeup artists, let me quantify that statement just a little bit. Typically what we see when hair and makeup is running behind, sometimes it can be because the artist is a little slower than we anticipated, but most the time it's because they are understaffed. So there aren't enough hairstylists or makeup artists there to do the amount of appointments, um, that were booked. Toss on top of that a couple of mimosas, a couple of late bridesmaids, and this is pretty much typical wedding lore.

I picked my venue about 2 and a half years before we actually had our wedding there. There was one specific thing that I knew I absolutely wanted and dreamed of, and it was a field of flowers before our ceremony chairs. I'll attach a little inspo pic so you know what I'm talking about, and I'll show you what my field of flowers ended up looking like, because to say I was devastated would be an understatement. No, a complete understatement.

She got the Timu field. No! How much did you pay? No, those are two very different— Hold up, hold up. Okay, first photo, there's hundreds of blooms here. Like, so many blooms here. Second photo, the— it's giving we have a flower field at home. That's what it's giving. Oh, honey. Also, I don't really like those chairs. They're giving plastic patio chairs at Grandma's house. That's, that's what that's giving. Okay, but, you know, maybe, maybe she picked them. I just don't— I just don't care. I just don't care for them. That's not the same thing. That's not even close.

I talked so extensively about this field of flowers that there was no possible way that there was a miscommunication because it was just the one— I had one inspo picture and I, I was so clear with my communication about it. I don't know how it ended up being the way that it was.

Yeah, there's no excuse for how this got messed up. If she had one inspo photo and she talked so extensively about it, like, there's, there's some distinct issues here. Here. Okay, now I did a little poking around on her feed, and I do know that she had her wedding in Cabo. So my knee-jerk reaction would be to say maybe there was some sort of language barrier, but when you have one singular inspiration photo, the, the excuses kind of stop for me. Like, I don't— that's not the same thing.

My altar arrangements, I also had one specific picture that I was referencing that I essentially wanted to recreate. I did have a second photo just to kind of give them a little bit of more direction, but it was something that I also was incredibly clear on. I wanted them to be almost asymmetrical sculptural pieces of hydrangeas, and I'll show you what I got.

Nope, nope, that's not the same thing at all. I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry, I'm yelling at you right now. That's not the same thing. Okay, let's, let's go back to— can we get a side-by-side of these photos, please and thank you? This rich textural— you can see there's almost like a gradient effect to it. There's a ton of movement to this. I really like how there's a lot of movement with those upper stems. They're not all cloistered together. Cloistered? Does that work here? Sure. And I can see why she added the other reference photo, because it shows a lot of movement, a lot of dimension, versus what she received, where there's no real color blending, there's no gradient, there's no textural— I mean, there are some. I think the— I— what is— there are some. There are some little stems waggling up top, but not— this is not— those aren't the right colors. This is not the vibe at all. I'm not seeing any of that, like, vintage antique green hydrangea happening here. I'm also not seeing any of the gradient in the red. It's literally all red white shaggy skirt.

For my altar arrangements specifically, I wanted them to be all hydrangeas with a few blush and burgundy roses, but absolute main focus were on the hydrangeas. I also didn't want any dark green florals. I don't vibe with dark green. I wanted them to be light green. Ah, for my welcome table, I'll show you the little setup inspo pic that I had that I kind of put together when I toured my venue. I took very specific pictures so that I could later place decor where I wanted it to be. And for my welcome table, I wanted my linen sign to be hanging off the tree, but I wanted it to touch the ground. And what I didn't know is that they cut a whole branch off. So then they hung it up so high that it was like 3 feet off the ground. And I, I, I was like, what is happening? But I didn't see it until I was walking into my ceremony.

Oh no. This one is like no one's fault. You know, like what, what are you supposed to do in this kind of scenario? A planner can't anticipate a limb being cut off a tree. It's not like we walk around with spare, uh, pipes to hang that from. This one's awkward. Yeah, it doesn't look great. It still has the desired effect. If this were me, if I was the planner at this event, I would have scooted the table over to be much closer to the drapery because I think it would have created a more cohesive look. Even if we didn't have that like pooling on the ground vision, which feels very luxurious, a little bit decadent, like I love that concept. Even if we couldn't have that, we should definitely not have it floating over here, billowing in the wind and the table 4 feet away. We needed to have the cohesiveness of that all together for it to really make sense. So I think that was definitely a missed opportunity here.

Also didn't see any of my floral arrangements for the ceremony and my field of flowers until I was walking into my ceremony. No. Which was hilarious to experience in that moment.

That's not hilarious. That's horrible, honey. Oh, and she's like trying to keep like, have her photography face on. She's already 45 minutes late. She's like, here we go. I'm walking down the aisle. Where are all my flowers? What's happening? But of course doesn't want to have her gorgeous face that she spent an extra 45 minutes on that she probably shouldn't have absolutely crumble as she's walking down the aisle. So she's just trying to fake it at this point. I could not imagine the amount of emotional turmoil that she's experiencing in this moment.

Poor thing. 3 months to thrift a lot of my silver decor that I brought from the US down to Cabo, and I thrifted a lot of vases and pitchers and, you know, just deep, deeper bowls for florals and for fruits and veggies to kind of be spilling out of. So on my welcome table, they ended up placing one of those silver pitchers with nothing in it, just randomly there.

Oh no. Okay, who's— who did the florals? How did we miss this? This could be one of those it just slipped through the cracks kind of scenarios, but also the, the pass-off between what a couple thrifts versus what a florist uses or a wedding planner uses. If it's all passed off within like a day or two of the event, things can kind of fall through the gaps. Seeing as she was traveling in from out of the country, my guess is the florist didn't have these items, these vessels ahead of time. There might have been a little bit of confusion surrounding them. So if you are thrifting items and you're having a professional florist, use those items, get those to the florist as soon as possible. Talk through your vision. Say, this is specifically what I want for this, or put Post-its on different things. So you're really overly communicating here what your vision is. I'm not asking you to do the florist's job for them, but because they aren't automatically using their typical vessels that they have or that they rent out, and they're kind of working with what you got, you need to have extra communication on top of that so moments like this don't get missed.

Spent days of my life editing together a home movie essentially of when we got engaged, my like bridal era, me trying on my dresses for the first time. It was a mix of camcorder footage of just like digital footage that I was taking of our dog. It was like the cutest little home movie that I put together and it was supposed to be displayed on a projector and the movie itself was in black and white. I had to rent a $400 projector for this. From the company, and when they displayed it on the backdrop, it was blue and yellow and not black and white. I did get a refund for that.

I'm sorry, if, if this is my client and she has a home video that she put together and it's coming across as blue and white, I would cut it. I would cut it. I would be like, hey, something's wrong with the projector. You do not want this. It is blue and yellow. Like, we— why is this playing? This girl is so specific and intent about what she wants her aesthetic to look like. She had to have communicated to someone that this is a black and white video. So if you are watching this, like, you You can't think that this gal who is so intentional with her aesthetic, so intentional with her setup photos, that she would intentionally have a blue and yellow video. You just can't think that way, especially given her overall vibe, wedding colors, etc. She's got a very elegant look, she's got great taste. How did nobody go, um, un momento, por favor, that's the wrong colors? I'm glad she got a refund for that though. $400 though? I feel like you could buy a projector for Not me telling you to buy everything and send it right to get— or outsourcing it, because we all know how that went for my wedding, right? Right.

Okay, I talked so in depth about where I wanted the projector to be placed ideally because I didn't want essentially people to see where the projector was. Um, and if you know me and myself and my life, you know that I'm very intentional about these kinds of things and these types of details. Even though I am Type B, I was very intentional about this. And they ended up placing the projector like right in front of the backdrop, just on a table. So you could just see the projector, see the black cord in the middle of the space, and I was pretty livid about it.

This is, this is, this is the kind of stuff like where I wonder, did this bride have luxury expectations from a not luxury experience? Like, was it not staffed properly? Did she not have a wedding planner? Was it someone who just came on the scenes at the very end and didn't know her complete vision? I want to know more of the story here because this bride is giving me anything but unclear. Like, she knows exactly what she wants. She is very specific. She doesn't want the cord out there. She wants the projector hidden. And honestly, I don't freaking blame her. It's like the Disneyland experience to me, right? Like, you know, there are things happening behind the scenes, but you don't, you don't need to see that. You don't want to see the cords, right? You don't want anyone tripping over it. You just want it to give, evoke this feeling of like, look, you're watching a home video in black and white, not, oh, watch your step before you knock into the $400 projector. Thank you. And this is where DIY brides or piecemealing too many things together kind of gets a little bit out of hand if you don't have a large enough planning staff to pull this off. If your cousin's picking up the projector, setting up the pipe drape, and setting up the projector on a table for you. You know, beggars can't be choosers in a scenario like that. If it's a wedding planning staff that's setting this up for you, they should be well enough staff to handle all of these details because we can't be everywhere at once. So sometimes a couple's ideas outpace their actual service staff or the people they've hired. Again, I'm not sure if that's what happened in this scenario, but as always, I try to use these videos as a teaching opportunity for you guys. Don't bite off more than your planner can chew, or your service staff, or your family members and friends. Okay, okay.

My planners use this platform called Aisle Planner, and essentially it's where you can place certain tables of where you want your reception tables to go, where you want your decor to go, things like that. And so I really took the time to place the tables where I wanted them to be. Backdrop, where the projector was going to go, the recept— or where I thought the projector was going to go, the reception tables, the cocktail hour tables, the decor table, our photo op moment. So when I was taking some portraits the morning of the wedding, I saw that the decor table was in a spot where I they didn't place it and I was like, why is that there? And then they kind of gave me some like ish about not moving it or like, yeah, we'll see if we can move it. And I was like, what? What do you mean?

Okay, so there are planners, there are planners, there are planners. Great, great. Again, are they staffed enough to do this? Because this is— there are some pretty elaborate visions here with layered things, with things hanging, with floral installation. Again, that's not the planner's job. That's not what they should be doing unless they were doing multi-services, which I I do not encourage unless it's a photo video package, then maybe, then maybe, because I like when photo and video can work together really well. But that doesn't matter. That doesn't matter. I digress. If this bride was this meticulous, if this was my client and she's like, I want it in this exact location, I want it to look exactly like this, I would be bringing on more service staff. I would be bringing on additional planners. I would be bringing someone along with me that knows my eye, knows the bride's eye, and can set things up as good as possible, as close to her renderings as possible. And then I would go back through and double check. Is this what she wants it to look like? Because I have yet to have a bride that gets this detailed with their inspo photos. I also think that we need to encourage just a little bit of like a little bit of grace, right? Because sometimes brides, sometimes couples get really hyperfixated on exactly what they want these moments, these photos to look like when it's unrealistic to pull that off. So the planners might have said, oh yeah, we'll see if we can move it. It might have been in her renderings near an ingress or egress area. They might have had to move it per fire code to make sure there's a clear walkway. Sometimes these things happen, or sometimes the planner's plate is totally overfilled and they're like, that is the least of my worries. I hear what you're saying. I know you have this vision. This is not what they're saying out loud with their mouth. It's what they're saying in their head. I know you have this vision, but I don't know if I can pull it off. That's where a planner could and should go to the couple and say, hey, I understand that this is how your vision was. This is how the florist set it up. It's going to take us about 20 to 25 minutes to go and make that shift or make that adjustment. If we do that, that will take us away from doing this activity over here. So I understand this is not the vision. We still have to deal with this. What would be your preference? And give them that option. But the one thing I definitely do not like about this is that the planners made her feel dismissed. Like, mm, oh, okay, mm. The fact that she's months later and still like, yeah, it just, it felt like they were being dismissive of this. They gave me some ish about not moving it or trying to move it and then just didn't do anything about it.

The photo op moment wasn't placed where I wanted it to be placed and it also didn't look the way that I wanted it to look. And also I had a pillar with a floral arrangement on it and they placed it too far to to the side so it wasn't in any of the pictures— oh my god I'm getting so mad as I'm talking about all this stuff! It wasn't in any of the pictures because it wasn't close enough to where our photo op was? Oh wow my heart is starting to hurt me.

Mmm mm okay why is that her inspo photos are freaking stunning and every single photo she shows from her event is literally giving knockoff. She wanted Dr Pepper, it's giving Mr. Pip, okay? It's not, it's not, it's not the same. It's not the same, okay? She literally got a Temu version of all of her inspiration. Like, it's not, it's not even close. Even the way that the linen is laying on that backdrop, the colors, the textures of the florals, it's just, it's all off, you know? It's almost like she was going for a black and white video and then it's blue and yellow. It's, it, the, the whole everything is just off. The color is off on all of this.

He couldn't get my dress bustled for like 25 minutes, which then delayed the reception. I don't know why it delayed the reception because I told them to seat the guests and even start the first course. I don't know. Anyway, so we couldn't get my dress bustled. We never ended up getting it fully bustled, which like, I don't really care. I was changing almost right after that, so that wasn't a big deal to me. But the time that it took to figure it out or to feel like we were going to figure it out just took too long.

Okay. I'm gonna hold your hand while I say this, okay? Hold your hand. Please take a video of your dress being bustled in the shop by the shop person, okay? I need you to have a video. I need it to explain out loud in detail what you're looking at, what you're looking for. Are they clear little loops? Are they colored? Are you attaching it to buttons? I need this to be in video form, and I need you to share it with your mom. Your maid of honor, with all of your bridesmaids, with your whole wedding party if you feel like it, okay? I also need you to share it with your planners because bustles suck. Bustles suck. This happens with great frequency, okay? This is not a one-off thing. I've seen this happen many times. In fact, I've seen a bustle so elaborate that literally the, the bridal salon sent a gal out to help bustle this bride's dress at her wedding, and it still took her 20 minutes to bustle it. An employee of the shop, please Film your bustle videos and share it. You know what? Share it with everybody. Share it with the world. Share it with everyone that comes to your wedding. Okay? Just so we can kind of avoid this moment. Alright? Practice. Do a dry run. Do a dry run at the salon so you can see how it goes. Do a dry run when you get home. Have your maid of honor or your mom take a look at this ahead of time. My arm's starting to burn from holding your hand right now. Okay? So be sure to take a video of your bustling. Okay?

K. My husband got very, very sick after our ceremony when we were doing our portraits and then into cocktail hour and he ended up throwing up. I will say this, it was not due to alcohol at all. He had no alcohol that day. It was like solely due to nerves.

Poor buddy. That's awful. I mean, there's like— there's nothing— I have no advice. I have no idea. I'm so sorry. Try not to internalize your stress. Maybe hire a planner. Oh, you already had one. I don't know. There's nothing I can do to help you on that one.

We had a very specific playlist set for our cocktail hour after our saxophonist was done playing. And none of those songs were played. And like, songs that were on my like absolute do not playlist were played. With the dance portion of our life, I spent hours of my life curating a very specific playlist for the wedding reception for the dance floor. And I was so insane with talking about how I didn't want songs to be played for longer than 45 seconds and I just wanted the best parts. And I hired an EDM-specific DJ to be able to do this, and songs were played the entire way through the entire 2 to 3 minutes long. It's so funny because I have so much more and I have run out of time completely. So this is all you're getting from me.

Okay, well, let's just fester on that DJ situation for just a second. Just a second. Just a second. Okay, teachable moment. A DJ can and will sometimes deviate from a playlist and/or a do not playlist. This is a very important question when you're working with your DJ. If I have a very clear do not playlist, like if I'm like, absolutely not, don't look at it, don't touch it, don't even mention Justin Bieber, don't even think about him, Okay, I don't want that energy in here. If anyone requests the song Baby or anything by Bruno Mars, I'm gonna scream. Or if it's Taylor Swift, whatever it happens to be, have this conversation with your DJ ahead of time, okay? Because sometimes the DJ will read the room because the dance floor is falling really flat and they're like, I don't know what's going on, I don't— oh, this couple really doesn't want me to play this song or these kinds of songs, but I know they're crowd pleasers. So what if I just— what if I just— hear me out— what if I just test it for just like a second? Just like test it and see how they do. And if everyone comes back to the dance floor, the DJ goes, ah, That's what I got to do. I still think there needs to be some sort of like even beforehand, hey, I see that you have a do not playlist. I appreciate that. I will do my best to not play those. Here's the deal. Here's why some of these are top hits. Here's sometimes what will happen to the dance floor if we stick to a specific genre and we don't really mix it up. This is an educational gap on behalf of DJs. Okay. If she had a specific playlist, though, that she wanted and all the DJ had to do was press play for Cocktail Hour, that just means that he just messed up. He just did something wrong, right? He just didn't play the correct playlist. When we hire an EDM-specific DJ, for a wedding, we are going to run into problems. If we are not hiring a wedding DJ, we are going to run into problems. I still don't know why they didn't start the first chorus. I didn't, I didn't touch on that earlier. That just could be like the chef's like, no, I'm not serving it until the couple comes out, or the planner made an executive decision. I don't know. But specifically wanting only 45 seconds of a song to be played and then 2 to 3 minutes were played, it can almost have this like rushed feeling to the event overall where it could be too much, where the guests kind of start to get overwhelmed because there is no lulls, there's no builds. It's just all boom boom boom boom, song song song song. And frankly, it can get a little overwhelming on the psyche, okay? And that's probably why the DJ made an executive decision to play longer versions of them. Again, this is an educational gap. This is something the DJ should have informed the couple on ahead of time. But my guess is the DJ made decisions on the fly and is not used to doing weddings, and therefore didn't see a need to educate the couple on why different decisions were being made, because it's not what the DJ does for a living. I also did a little digging because I was like, wait, I need more— I need more information. Información, if you will, okay? If you have planners and you had this many things happening. Okay, I'm already seeing her vision, her vibe. Probably 6-figure wedding. Okay, so I'm like, how much did your planners charge? And I found it, I found it, I found it. Are you ready? Lean in. $11,000. The planners charged $11,000. Okay, perfectly acceptable for this niche. Perfectly acceptable for this niche, uh, if they did the job right. And I don't think they did. I do not think they were staffed well. I do not think they executed her vision as well as they should have. That's not an $11,000 service. Like, I was like, oh, maybe she hired someone for 4, you know, maybe it's just day coordinator, uh, her and her husband working together, you know, maybe it's, maybe it's one of those kind of things. Nope. If you're charging $11K for an event, you've done this for a while, you're in a more mid-level luxury tiered space, uh, this, this feels less, less excusable to me. This feels less excusable to me. And I have some people that are watching this right now, they're like, my entire wedding budget's $11,000, what do you mean that's what she paid for a planner? Listen, we've talked about this many times in videos before. We've got budget weddings all the way up to luxury weddings, and there are multiple tiers. In between. This is obviously not on the budget end of the spectrum, but for $11,000, I would, I would think that, I would think that things should have looked a little, a little bit different at that cost. And at that level, I would expect attention to detail to be a very important thing, especially when you have a bride that's this clear. Now again, if this was my client and I saw all of these inspo photos coming in and she was really specific about how she wanted things to look, I would have to educate her on, we might have to make some changes in the field. It might not look exactly like this. We're going to use this as inspiration, not gospel truth, in case we have to adjust anything. Just so you know, we will do our best to achieve this vision that you've laid out, but sometimes that way it looks on Canva or the way it looks on whatever sort of editing platform you have doesn't render the same way IRL. So we might have to kind of just scoot things around, but I understand the spirit of the vision. This is why when you are hiring planners, make sure you feel seen and heard and they can repeat back to you exactly what you feel like you want. Because if the aesthetics is important to you and they miss that vision, then you're gonna have a bunch of scenarios like this where it didn't look right, it wasn't set up right, The vibe was just off. Like, why would you have a pillar outside of the photo moment? You need it to be in. You need someone who understands the basic components of design to be able to pull off something like this. So what are our big takeaways? Well, one, things happen at weddings. They just do. And sometimes it takes a while to process them. Two, sometimes you puke when you're a little stressy messy. Okay, sometimes it happens. Neither one of those I can help specifically. Three, make sure you are seeing things in your planner's portfolio, in your florist portfolio, uh, in your venue's portfolio that match the vibe that you would like to create. If you do not see that your florist has done some sort of movement installation like we see here specifically, that the bride one at the top aisle, you know, right at the altar where they're getting married, or the floral field, if she doesn't see that vision in any of her florist galleries, it might be that they haven't done it before and/or it might be that they're not able to achieve that. Same with the planner. If we are doing this level of elaborate setup, right, we're literally bringing in thrifted items from a different country as a part of our display. We need a lot more conversation around this. So I do think that perhaps the bride could have ratcheted this back just a little bit, maybe add a little bit more perspective on what her requests were. But mostly I blame the professionals she was working with for not educating her or letting her know about changes, for not informing her how the dance floor might need to work, for not executing the florals anywhere near close to what she wanted. I mean, there was hydrangeas. There were. There were some of those. There are some of those. Other than that, Tamu. Tamu. Okay. Oh, and if you know that you are a bride with time blindness, maybe don't do your own makeup, okay? Or, or, or, or, or put someone else in charge of, of the time of you and your time, okay? Okay. Because running lights, it happens, it happens, it happens. But we really want to make sure we avoid it if we can, okay? Okay. So that's what we have for today's video, guys. Thank you so much for watching. If you like the video, jump on down there, like the video, and subscribe to this channel for more tips and for the modern-day bride. And until next week, bye guys! Oh, and don't forget to film your bustle! Okay? Film your bustle.